Just let It Go ...

Let it go, easy to say hard to follow,  isn't??. Almost all of us use sentences such as are jane de yaar, chhor na yaar, let it go man etc. one time or another. But the fact is its never easy to let go especially if that particular situation is not in your favour. 

Letting it go is an art. If you don't know how to do it then it consumes you inside-out, its true. But what my point is, if its really that easy to act as if you do not care then why it takes so much effort to actually do it ??  Hum kyu kisi bat ko wahi chhor nahi pate... u know why... its very simple, it is because we think and think and overthink ... so much so that the issue grows inside us like a balloon and there comes a point where that balloon is ready to burst. So the formula for letting it go is simple..the moment you decide to let it go, we have to just stop thinking about it. Bas sochne ka nahi. ...😎

However as each coin has two sides, its not always possible to let things go. Some time the situation may effect you very personally, or it might be an attack on your dignity or self respect. In such cases,  no matter how much someone tries to convince you, you should never let go of situation and fight back. But in most other scenarios letting go will ease your mind and make you happy.

Another fun observation from my side is that we females are bad at this compared to our male counterparts  ... Bahot sochte hain yaar hum (Dil se bhi, Dimaag se bhi) 😊... So its time that we master the art of letting go and unlock the secret portal to everlasting happiness.